The Power of Connection

We live in a world that feels a little insane right now. 😬

 We spend hours each day distracted by the internet, the political agenda, anxiety over the ever-increasing levels of inflation, and our rage at seeing the country fall apart as bad men hold power with zero accountability.  

It leaves all of us disempowered, a lot less grounded and a little less sane as our “logical mind” is constantly being highjacked by an overwrought amygdala. (Primitive, fear-based part of the brain) 

But what if it didn’t have to be this way?  

Here’s something to consider:  

What if the fastest and surest way to find our own version of sanity and happiness is to find others who share our own, quirky, unique way of seeing and creating happiness?  

đŸ«ŁWhat if much of the division we are seeing here in the states is a very intentional agenda to distract, enrage, and disconnect us – from our ability to make sound and logical choices, from our creativity, from our higher self and most of all, from each other? 

đŸ€Humans need connection.  We have lived in small communities and tightly knit familial homes for thousands of years.  

This was for necessity and protection, of course, but also, because something our forefathers and mothers knew instinctively was that we thrive best when we are in healthy community.  

This is not just a physical phenomenon, but molecular in the unconscious information we share with those around us.  

Beyond that, living in aligned community with others is energetically empowering – when we live in a state of care and shared value, there is an agreement that is struck – let’s  call it an “atomic contract” – that our shared experience and intent becomes a potent force in the universe that 💯 can alter the framework of our reality.  

This mutual, unspoken agreement is a contract struck and held within the fabric of reality that a new, combined way of seeing reality and happiness becomes a shared venture. 

I know this all probably feels a little deep and maybe a bit “woo woo”, but remember that everything, at its foundation, is energy; âœšđŸ’«molecules vibrating at different frequencies that put information into the world of what we see as “concrete reality”; literally creating this video-game world, moment by moment.  

 Stick with me here and I will elaborate:

👉Through a shared desire to create a certain type of reality, the power to do exactly that is increased exponentially.  Your will, combining with the will of another, or others, creates a joint manifestation that can literally put into play a whole new level of existence. 

Think of how wonderful we feel when we meet another soul, whether that is a good friend or lover. 💕This feeling  is combined energy that converts our own vibration into something higher as a result of a beautiful alignment between two humans of mindset and heart resonance.  

Tiny home communities are another great example of how combined collaboration can create something greater,, as are co-ops, communes, etc.

We have been taught by religion, political powers, and societal norms(created by those in power) that we have to be “good“ in order to achieve heaven in the next realm of existence, but I don’t personally feel that the way and power from which we shape our reality has any bearing on the human concepts of “right” and “wrong”.

Look at the success Trump has had, for example.

He has a whole family who may not like each other, and all seem to be vile in their own way, but all share the common goal of acquiring great wealth and do that very, very well, though largely by nefarious means.  

(Side note:  I do believe that there is a universal shared agreement or contract that boils down to “do unto others” that we all know, inherently, and should follow.  I also believe strongly in the concept of self-judgement and a possible self-inflicted mental “punishment” – creating “heaven” or  “hell” for ourselves in the last moments before complete brain death.  We know that time is a construct, but especially inside the mind. This heaven or hell could feel like an eternity, though it’s only a few seconds, before our soul rejoins the cosmic force that we call God.  
Working on a story based on this concept rnâ€ŠđŸ”„đŸ˜‰)

But
 back to the main point.  

Royal families breeding close is another example of the power held in intentional co-creation.  Thousands of years of intermarriage keeps that power condensed and DNA lines pure. 

In Marriage vows, we are literally proclaiming in front of a group of people and to the law itself our mutual agreement of will-shaping to the Universe; as a signed and witnessed contract, giving even more energy/power to this newly shared existence. 

(Side note 2 – I do believe that we need to completely reframe and rewrite those traditional vows to reflect the new reality that we are living in -i.e. Greater equality between the sexes, greater financial freedom, a better understanding of healthy relationships and how we can choose – or not-  to be emotionally, physically and energetically healthy within the parameters of our relationships. But I’ll elaborate on that another day)

There are dozens or more examples of how connection empowers us – corporations, podcasts, etc., etc., but you probably get my point, and the purpose for this particular blog.  

We The People need to stop succumbing to the b.s.and division the System is trying to get us to conform to, connecting or reconnecting with others of shared vision and value, and start being intentional about the world we want to see created, together.  

This is how we will find our strength.đŸ’Ș  This is how we empower not only ourselves, but our loved ones and those around us.  We stand together, aligned and empowered, creating a reality where we all have abundance, wealth, and the freedom to live our lives in happiness.  

Big Love.💖

Ingredients for a decadent life

If our thoughts produce emotions and emotions are resonance – and resonance/vibration is the language of the universe, what language are you speaking to Source?  

When we ask for the outflow of our best possible life from a place of lack, anger, fear or other negative emotional states, it is impossible for Source to grant that reality because Good can’t be created from the building blocks of lack.  

It’s like asking your mom to bake a decadent chocolate cake when all you supply her with is white flour.  đŸ‘©â€đŸłđŸ§đŸ€·â€â™€ïž

This might seem like a simplified metaphor but the idea is exactly the same.  Good out, better back.  

If you aren’t sure of how to create your highest vibe, start with gratitude – but don’t just list out those things you value.  

What’s really important is that you practice feeling the joy of those things.  From that place of higher resonance you can begin the process of  co-creating the life of your dreams.

The next step is to look at the deeper held beliefs that might be holding you back or creating blocks to your best reality. 

It’s estimated that a whopping 70-80% of us experience childhood abuse or trauma that greatly contribute to a negative subconscious state of mind.

What are the subconscious programs of lack of worth and value that may have been running since childhood that contradict what you want to experience in real time? 

Here are some questions that can help you to understand whether or not you are asking for chocolate cake but putting out white refined flour, borrowed from Greg Baden’s book “The Spontaneous Healing of Belief”:

These questions target the heart of what we believe we deserve.  

In the book, the author goes on to speak of the “Great Question” as our fundamental belief in the contrast of good and evil (good loves us, evil wants our destruction) in the world or the idea that there is One Source (that has our best interest at heart) from which everything stems.  

A very interesting question indeed, but regardless of which side of the fence you might stand on, I believe that realizing your essential sense of value and worth is 💯 crucial to the co-creation of an amazing, magical reality.  

What you resonate, you draw to you. 

Let me repeat that in a different way because this is the most important fundamental law of the universe:

What you vibrate, you create. 

This is true of attracting money, a mate, the car of your dreams or a rusted out hulk, a home, health and vibrancy or illness and fatigue
 and everything else under the sun.  

Let’s say “Josh” wishes to manifest his dream career opening a travel agency but those inner voices (subconscious programs) tell him that it is safer to stay in the soul-sucking corporate job he’s been at for the last ten years, or that he will surely fail if he tries something different.  Or maybe he doesn’t deserve to have a career that makes him happy and makes good money too.  

Sad, right? đŸ„ș

 What do you think the odds are that Josh will ever see his dream become a reality?  Probably pretty low unless he begins to re-write those programs to create a better reality.  

We can take the same formula to everything in our lives.  What partners do we tend to attract over and over?  (What did your parents, family and social groups teach you that you deserved?) 

How many times have we failed at our diet or getting in shape?  (Do you really see yourself as you want to be?) 

I know it might be painful to look at these lessons, babe.  Change is rarely easy and often hard AF.  But believe me, so very worth it.  

You are worth it. ✹

Affirmations, vision boards, mantra and meditation are all great ways to begin overwriting those patterns of lack.  Therapy can be pretty amazing, too.đŸ„°

There are also many wonderful resources on YouTube for guided meditations that can help facilitate the process, too.  

I especially like “Power Thoughts Meditation Club which combines powerful binaural beats with positive affirmations. Here’s one example:

For now, if you haven’t begun a daily gratitude practice, it’s a perfect place to start getting yourself into that higher vibrational state, and there’s no better time than the present to begin.đŸ’«

Today I am grateful for so many things – a lovely sunset stroll with a good friend, cold drinks and live music on a Saturday night, good coffee, an amazing meditation and relaxed morning, my happy pups
but family and friends top my list.  

What’s on your list today? Are you holding the ingredients for a decadent chocolate cake aka an amazing reality in your field – or dusty white flour? đŸ€—

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